zero data in hm_fragment on alloc

zero data in hm_fragment on alloc

if we allocate a new hm_frament in dtls1_buffer_message with
dtls1_hm_fragment_new, the returned fragment contains uninitalized data in the
msg_header field.  If an error then occurs, and we free the fragment,
dtls_hm_fragment_free interrogates the msg_header field (which is garbage), and
potentially references undefined values, or worse, accidentally references
available memory that is not owned, leading to various corruptions.

Reviewed-by: Dmitry Belyavskiy <beldmit@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Tim Hudson <tjh@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/22679)