Fix re-signing certificates with different key sizes

Fix re-signing certificates with different key sizes

PR #18129 broke the scenario of signing a certificate (not CSR) with
different-sized key. This works in 3.0, so port the fix from 3.0
(which is to only update the issuer for a request).

Partially undo #18129, but keep setting the issuer only for a CSR

Create two certs (a and ca) then sign a with c (into b):
```
openssl req -x509 -newkey rsa:2048 -keyout a-key.pem -out a-cert.pem -days 365 -nodes -subj /CN=a.example.com
openssl req -x509 -newkey rsa:4096 -keyout ${HERE}/ca-key.pem -out ${HERE}/ca-cert.pem -days 3650 -nodes -subj /CN=ca.example.com
openssl x509 -in a-cert.pem -CA ca-cert.pem -CAkey ca-key.pem -set_serial '1234567890' -preserve_dates -sha256 -out b-cert.pem
```
The above succeeds in 1.1.1n and 3.0, fails in 1.1.1o (which includes #18129)
The issue in #16080 is also fixed.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Ben Kaduk <kaduk@mit.edu>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/18836)