Correctly activate the provider in OSSL_PROVIDER_try_load

Correctly activate the provider in OSSL_PROVIDER_try_load

If during OSSL_PROVIDER_try_load() we attempt to load a provider, but
adding to the store gives back a different provider, then we need to
ensure this different provider has its activation count increased.

Reviewed-by: Paul Dale <pauli@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/17018)