Add quick one-shot EVP_Q_mac() and deprecation compensation decls for MAC functions

Add quick one-shot EVP_Q_mac() and deprecation compensation decls for MAC functions

This helps compensating for deprecated functions such as HMAC()
and reduces clutter in the crypto lib, apps, and tests.
Also fixes memory leaks in generate_cookie_callback() of apps/lib/s_cb.c.
and replaces 'B<...>' by 'I<...>' where appropriate in HMAC.pod

Partially fixes #14628.

Reviewed-by: Paul Dale <pauli@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/14664)