Streamline dependency generation

Streamline dependency generation

It seems that only gcc -MMD produces dependency files that are "sane"
for our needs.  For all other methods, some post processing is needed:

- 'makedepend' (Unix) insists that object files are located in the
  same spot as the source file.
- 'cl /Zs /showIncludes' (Visual C) has "Note: including file: " where
  we'd like to see the object.
- 'CC/DECC' (VMS) insists that the object file is located in the
  current directory, i.e. it strips away all directory information.

So far, we've managed this (except for the VMS case) with individual
uncommented perl command lines directly in the build file template.
We're now collecting these diverse hacks into one perl script that
takes an argument to tell what kind of input to expect and that
massages whatever it gets on STDIN and outputs the result on STDOUT.

Reviewed-by: Andy Polyakov <appro@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/5591)