Move logic for figuring out the record version out of record layer

Move logic for figuring out the record version out of record layer

This calculation is based on lots of information from state machine and
elsewhere that the record layer cannot access. In reality it is sufficient
to simply tell the record layer what version to use.

Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/19198)