Convert the TLSv1.3 crypto code to the new write record layer

Convert the TLSv1.3 crypto code to the new write record layer

We also clean up some of the KTLS code while we are doing it now that all
users of KTLS have been moved to the new write record layer.

Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/19343)