QUIC RX: Support refcounted packets and eliminate wrapper

QUIC RX: Support refcounted packets and eliminate wrapper

Previously, the QRX filled in a OSSL_QRX_PKT structure provided by the
caller. This necessitated the caller managing reference counting itself
using a OSSL_QRX_PKT_WRAP structure. The need for this structure has
been eliminated by adding refcounting support to the QRX itself. The QRX
now outputs a pointer to an OSSL_QRX_PKT instead of filling in a
structure provided by the caller. The OSSL_QRX_PKT_WRAP structure has
been eliminated.

Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/19703)