Fix a possible use-after-free in custom_exts_free

Fix a possible use-after-free in custom_exts_free

This may happen when ssl_cert_dup calls custom_exts_copy, where
a possible memory allocation error causes custom_exts_free
to be called twice: once in the error handling of custom_exts_copy
and a second time in the error handling of ssl_cert_dup.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Levitte <levitte@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/22772)