Change the TLS handshake keys early if we're not doing early data

Change the TLS handshake keys early if we're not doing early data

We change the client TLS handshake keys as late as possible so that we
don't disturb the keys if we are writing early data. However for QUIC we
want to do this as early as possible (after ServerHello). Since we will
never do TLS early data with QUIC we just do it as early as possible if
early data is not being used.

Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/21810)