Enable the ability to query the COMP_METHOD being used in the record layer

Enable the ability to query the COMP_METHOD being used in the record layer

We also convert to passing COMP_METHOD rather than SSL_COMP to the record
layer. The former is a public type while the latter is internal only - and
the only thing we need from SSL_COMP is the method.

Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Hugo Landau <hlandau@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/19217)