QUIC Dispatch: Refactor APL interface to use SSL pointers not QC pointers

QUIC Dispatch: Refactor APL interface to use SSL pointers not QC pointers

We now refactor the interface between ssl_lib.c frontend functions and
the QUIC API Personality Layer so that the respective functions
comprising the interface use SSL object pointers rather than raw
QUIC_CONNECTION pointers. This is in preparation for stream support
since once streams are supported, calls to e.g. ossl_quic_write() may be
made on a QUIC_CONNECTION or a QUIC_XSO (that is, a stream object). Thus
we take a uniform approach across all functions comprising the interface
between the ssl_lib.c frontend and the QUIC API Personality Layer of
using SSL pointers always. This provides a uniform approach  and
ensures that any function of the API personality layer can be easily
adapted to support being called on a stream object in the future.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Tomas Mraz <tomas@openssl.org>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/20765)