Adapt the provider AES for more use of OSSL_PARAM

Adapt the provider AES for more use of OSSL_PARAM

The cipher context IV was a bit interesting.  EVP_CIPHER_CTX_iv()
returns a pointer to the live IV, while EVP_CIPHER_CTX_ctrl() with the
type EVP_CTRL_GET_IV gets a copy of the live IV.  To support both, we
support getting it with both the OSSL_PARAM_OCTET_STRING and
OSSL_PARAM_OCTET_PTR datatypes.

Reviewed-by: Paul Dale <paul.dale@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Shane Lontis <shane.lontis@oracle.com>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/9328)